Our Calling Ken and Stephanie have
been married for over 34 years and have two grown children, a
daughter-in-law and a granddaughter. They have devoted
themselves to reduce the divorce rate by preparing marriages.
Ken, as president of Married 4 Keeps, has received 3 federally
funded grants, one foundation grant, was trained in 15 marriage
education classes, taken graduate studies in marriage & counseling and has
been working full time in the marriage ministry for 3 years.
Instead of providing pre-marital counseling we provide
pre-marital education.
The Need
Marriage and divorce effects much more than
the bride and the groom. It also effects the parents of both and
especially the children, if so blessed. But the effects of
divorce on the children is both sad and significant. "Children
of divorce are three times as likely, as those from intact homes,
to be expelled from school or to have a baby as a teenager, five
times as apt to live in poverty and are 12 times more likely to
be incarcerated according to the Heritage Foundation" Most
divorces are preventable.
Did you know
that divorce costs everyone?
Besides the cost to
the children and families who have been victimized by divorce,
divorce creates a huge financial burden on society. According to
Logan, UT: Utah State University, the average total cost of
divorce (including direct and indirect costs) is $30,000. In
Orange County we have approximately 1000 divorce filings per
month. That is potentially a cost of $30 million per month
(including child support enforcement, Medicaid, TANF funds, food
stamps, public housing, correctional facilities, unwed child
bearing, drug problems, delinquency, criminality, and other
social problems associated with divorce).
Testimonials
(see Engaged Couples, Leadership Training, Pre-marital Prep)